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Now I know you’d rather not, but I think we ought to.

You see, here’s the conundrum about the menopause.  One of the well known symptoms of menopause is a loss of libido.  It’s quite well catalogued.  But nobody specifies the parameters of this loss.

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This is a tricky one because it differs from person to person.

The stated ‘average age’ for a woman in the UK to go through menopause is 51 or 52.

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I ask  this question because the word ‘relief’ implies some sort of escape from something.

And is a term usually applied in the context of a medical complaint ­ IBS relief, stress relief, backache relief and so on.

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As a younger woman, I think I was prepared for greying hair and wrinkles in later life.  But nobody told me that the consistency of my hair would change so much.  I remember looking at ‘old ladies’ on the bus and in the arrogance of my youth, wondering why they had such horrible ‘bowl’ cuts.  Why didn’t they go to the hairdresser and get it done nicely?

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The short answer to this question is yes, most definitely.  (Although most of us are in denial about it.)

Who can blame us?

After many years of the hustle and bustle of everyday life combined with the highs and lows that are frequently thrown at us, we’re all quite accustomed to feeling periodically content ­ often failing to acknowledge fleeting ‘happiness’ as it happens ­ followed by bouts of disconsolate grumpiness, irritability and even the blues.  It’s normal life, isn’t it?